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My POV on Love and dishonest people

What Im going to say is just MY very own opinion. . .
I personally believe that “TRUST” is the basic element of any relationships. It is the key to a lasting relationship.

Jealousy is a natural human emotion but for me it is a negative feeling that one cannot hide.  The feeling of insecurity, lack of trust, fear of failure etc…, It can influence pretention and committing lies. Their goal is to get RID of anything that can hinder their plans. People with big dreams will do anything to achieve their dreams. Some OVERDO IT though. If a girl/boy is insecure enough to invade the privacy of her bf/gf I think that really says a lot about the stability of the relationship. Once they succeed breaching trust to find out they were cheated, for me they should end the relationship at once. I learned that great relationships happen not only because two people love each other very much, they also VALUE one another and have RESPECT inside and outside the relationship. 

Don’t get me wrong- I do understand people who get jealous because they don’t get enough attention from their partner etc.. and want to be their only one, their everything. Relationships are hard work and talk time, open and honest communication and tons of compromise. If the two persons involved can manage that, there’s no reason that things won’t get better.

In the opposite, those people who become extremely possessive are the ones who thought themselves as the “victims” of a souring relationship and always blame their partners for not being serious enough. They usually blame not just their partners but other innocent people who are totally unaware of their growing doubts. They cover themselves with lies and pretenses to get to know what they want. Once their scheme is accomplished and they proved they were wrong, they will act as if you do not exist. Once humiliation sinks in and all their doubts were nothing but sheer over imagination, they treat you like a total stranger- not minding how many hours you’ve spent talking to them and opening your heart for what you thought was a real friendship, only to find out you were just somebody who could be a good source of juicy information. Used. That is the perfect word.

Needless to say, those kinds of people will never be contented enough in any kind of relationship they’ll be in. They will always have to struggle a lot to get what they want. I had to share my thoughts about it because I heard A LOT of stories about relationships from friends or random people and unfortunately had my share of *one particular person* gaining my trust for her personal gain. If it happened now,  I would have the strength to tell her personally. Fortunately for her, that was about 2 years ago when I was “young” and gullible.

The things I shared in here are just the result of what my parents taught me and my observations. Some people might think Im “too young” (can’t find the appropriate word) to give views on this matter. Pardon my bluntness, but I guess the truth is no one is really “too young” to give honest observations about things, more importantly about this thing called LOVE that makes the world go round. Again, this is just a personal opinion.

To end this post, I would just like to commend the brave and honest people who really fight for their relationships because yea, love can be so complicated! Kudos to you guys :) Don’t just overdo it please.